Happy Mother’s Day

I’ve just finished reading one of the nicest Mother’s Day columns ever, and I found it on the second page of the Sports section of The Boston Globe.

Odd, one might think — that it would be on the Sports pages at all, and that I might be searching there. But, the columnist happens to be a Sports writer, and he happened to have a very wonderful mother. And I, tottering towards my dotage, have decided to take up an earlier infatuation with the Red Sox.

The team is so sad-awful this year. They bring back heart-breaking memories. In 1986, the year Bill Buckner let the ball roll between his legs instead of wrapping up the game with the final out and winning the World Series, my husband broke a chair, scaring our three little children. He was so ashamed and upset, he never watched the Red Sox play again. I snuck a peek at the final game of that series, which the Buckner error left tied, 3 games each. The Mets won. Then I stopped watching, too.

But, the children are grown. I am alone with all kinds of memories, including those of my now deceased husband. So, one needs something.

I was scurrying on to more coverage of a win (oh joy!) when I saw “Mom and her Stockings.” The writer is Kevin Paul Dupont, his tagline, “On Second Thought.” He writes beautifully about his own mother’s late infatuation with all things Red Sox – including one handsome, strong, Jose Canseco.

“Moms. Sometimes they surprise you,” Dupont writes. His mother continues: “What a good-looking man. Wow, look at those muscles.”

“Moms. Sometimes they embarrass you,” the writer admits.

He also writes of her lively mind, her interest in birds, knitting, gardening, and in poetry. She could recite many poems from memory. And, this was a gift she kept to the end.

When she was dying from cancer and not as sharp as she had been, she could still recite the following poem, “Ducks,” by Frank W. Harvey, the columnist tells us. I was so smitten by the column and this woman that I looked up the poem, which I share with you now. (The poet was English, so the spellings of some words are different.)

Ducks

by Frank W. Harvey

I
From troubles of the world I turn to ducks,
Beautiful comical things
Sleeping or curled
Their heads beneath white wings
By water cool,
Or finding curious things
To eat in various mucks
Beneath the pool,
Tails uppermost, or waddling
Sailor-like on the shores
Of ponds, or paddling
– Left!  Right! – with fanlike feet
Which are for steady oars
When they (white galleys) float
Each bird a boat
Rippling at will the sweet
Wide waterway…
When night is fallen you creep
Upstairs, but drakes and dillies
Nest with pale water-stars.
Moonbeams and shadow bars,
And water-lilies:
Fearful too much to sleep
Since they’ve no locks
To click against the teeth
Of weasel and fox.
And warm beneath
Are eggs of cloudy green
Whence hungry rats and lean
Would stealthily suck
New life, but for the mien
The hold ferocious mien
Of the mother-duck.

II

Yes, ducks are valiant things
On nests of twigs and straws,
And ducks are soothy things
And lovely on the lake
When that the sunlight draws
Thereon their pictures dim
In colours cool.
And when beneath the pool
They dabble, and when they swim
And make their rippling rings,
0 ducks are beautiful things!
But ducks are comical things:-
As comical as you.
Quack!
They waddle round, they do.
They eat all sorts of things,
And then they quack.
By barn and stable and stack
They wander at their will,
But if you go too near
They look at you through black
Small topaz-tinted eyes
And wish you ill.
Triangular and clear
They leave their curious track
In mud at the water’s edge,
And there amid the sedge
And slime they gobble and peer
Saying ‘Quack! quack!’

III

When God had finished the stars and whirl of coloured suns
He turned His mind from big things to fashion little ones;
Beautiful tiny things (like daisies) He made, and then
He made the comical ones in case the minds of men
Should stiffen and become
Dull, humourless and glum,
And so forgetful of their Maker be
As to take even themselves – quite seriously.
Caterpillars and cats are lively and excellent puns:
All God’s jokes are good – even the practical ones!
And as for the duck, I think God must have smiled a bit
Seeing those bright eyes blink on the day He fashioned it.
And he’s probably laughing still at the sound that came out of its bill!

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